I want to share with everyone the type of experience you can have on Anilinkz with moderators that abuse their power. Code Monkey (CM) one of Anilinkz main moderators attempts to tear down my character reacting emotionally online and then banning me because he couldn't handle my difference in opinion. Please check out the picture below of the experience I had on Anilinkz site after commenting on an episode:
Moderators are suppose to keep the peace not randomly attack users that use the site and definitely not ban people over it.
Moderators on Anilinkz will ban you for any reason they choose, I attempted to speak to another moderator on chat about the abuse of one of the moderators but he said I was probably in the wrong and lol'd and asked how I considered it abuse after I explained what happened. Also I logged into my other account to reply back and CM re-edited my comment to say this:
Notice how the response is always hostile from the Anilinkz moderator.
I've used Anilinkz for over 5+ years now but I will not again for people that find pleasure in being internet bullies.
**Keep in mind, these are probably young immature kids running the site just be aware of what to expect. I hope this will make Anilinkz wake up and realize you can lose popularity if you abuse the users.**
Getting frustrated with your parents? Are they always having an input on your life and what you say or do? Well let's give this another perspective shall we.......
(Unfortunately there are people out there who may have parents that say harsh things to be mean, or are just not nice parents who don't do things in the best interest for there kids. It's up to YOU to know the difference.)
You may feel that whatever your parents have to say is infuriating because sometimes they react before knowing all the information or they might just be old fashioned and it's not done the same way now in life. The problem is that there's too much concern about what your parent's saying or how they're saying it. Yes listen to what your parents are saying but also READ IN BETWEEN the lines. Your parents are the most concerned about you so if they are just cursing or screaming to get there point across they are just that much more passionate about YOU.
Yes, sometimes parents are not good with there words because they're old fashioned!! Realize that your parents want you to grow and experience life and some don't want you to do anything because they are just fearful for you but either way your parents will always be the EMERGENCY BREAKS in your life even when you've grown to have all the experiences your meant to have in life. You will get to experience anything you truly want to even if your parents don't want you too because (if your young reading this one day you will move out and experience life) this is life and no one is an exception to life's harsh and amazing experiences.
Your JOB is to protect that little bit of wisdom you will ever receive in your life called parents. Yes people will give you knowledge in your life but the unique thing about a parents knowledge is that they know exactly what your capable of and they know all the building blocks that make you who you are even as you change and grow. So your parents advice or concerns will always be unique to anyone else's. With that said try your best to not let how your parents tell you something be the basis of your reaction (blowing a fuse and getting upset which leads to screaming). Read in between the lines that they say things and sometimes very passionately because they're worried about you.
It's okay to disagree with what your parents may say, you may live with your parents and to disagree is not an option. That's OKAY as frustrating as it may be always read in between the lines and question more of WHY they are saying it more then the HOW they are saying it.
Please, tell me why we as people can't step away from a terrible relationship. Whether your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend has cheated on you, they're a liar, acts completely opposite around others and etc of the no-no's in relationships we just don't want to listen to that heavy feeling we carry in our hearts. You make excuses for this person but your slapping yourself in the face every time you do that. Why do I say that? Well think about it, when you make an excuse for someone u have to justify there actions in some way to come up with an excuse in the first place so essentially your saying with different wording "It's okay that my partner cheated (lies non stop, betrays me etc.) he/she did it because of this(some excuse)." It's disrespectful to put yourself through that when you have a duty to make yourself happy.
“Being happy is not a right, but a duty. A duty to yourself.
Waiving rights is one thing, but failing in your duty is downright
irresponsible.”
-CLAMP
The bottom line is this "partner" ruined the trust and it can never be undone...The main issue with this is that people like to hold on to the past instead of facing the present. "Oh when I fist met him/her he/she was this way and that way." You HAVE to ask yourself about "right now" at the moment when the honey moon phase is over, when that ugly side of them comes out where u clearly see this persons bad side and there flaws and when your relationship is going through hurdles. Did this person pass or fail the test in your relationship. What makes that person so different from you who chose the right decision?? What in your mind makes them excusable and then you might find all your answers webbed in all of your emotions. Are emotional responses don't help us make the right decisions most of the time. Being in love is an emotional state, its easier said then done to break it off when you need too. Also have you thought about the future, things will never be the same. It's like a nasty burn in the relationship and the scar will never go away. You'll remember right down to every detail of how that scar came to be. Every trust factor of the relationship will be projected from that one mistake or 2 or 3 mistakes depending on what they did and how many times.
Was this the idea of happiness you had in mind. Was this your personal standard of happiness when you first started dating this person? I ask these questions because it's the things you forgot to ask yourself when you decided to stay with the person or even take them back after you already broke up with them.
“Everyone finds happiness differently, but ultimately,
happiness is a bargain with yourself. You need two things: action and
sincerity. Effort must be rewarded. If you pile hardship upon hardship,
overcome difficulty after difficulty and give yourself nothing in return, you
violate your contract.”
If you are interested in any covers send write a comment below and I will email you the original due to the picture being quite large it will disturb the design of the blog thank you :-).
Cover #1
I made this cover taking a really cool picture I like from http://wallpapers-hq.ru/en/ and adding a really cool quote from an anime I enjoyed called "XXXholic" and also using Photobucket as a helping tool to combine the two. The girl in this picture doesn't look "normal" with the clown paint on her face I just thought it fit the quote perfectly.
This cover was really hard to create because I actually paused and anime i was watching right at this very second and I did a print-screen copy of this image. A couple days later I got the idea to make it into a cover for my Facebook. Then I thought hmm...this is really missing something like a deep quote or story that has a bit of sadness to it. So, I looked online couldn't find anything that I felt fit me so I took lyrics from different songs from Evanescence to Mariah Carey to Janet Jackson lol and combined all the lyrics into one little short story. I changed some words around and this is what I came up with...again using Photobucket I worked hard to achieve this at the last minute lol.
If you want the picture without the quote It looks like this :
This cover I made because I've been running into a lot of jealousy I thought it would be fun to make a Facebook cover to get my message across! lol ^_^
Cover # 3
I made this cover by going to http://wallpapers-hq.ru/en/.I was able to find this cool picture, I put some overlays on the picture with Photobucket and added a quote by yours truly. Hope you like it!
The will be more self-made covers to come stay tuned ;-)
There is a certain cool you must always maintain when dealing with the man your truly interested in...A certain composure must never be broken...
Why you ask? Well the simple answer is respect.. There might be some men out there that like a women who is emotional but he won't respect you for it. When you hear things like "She's a female" also known as she="emotion", its a cop out and excuse. That's his way of dealing with any of your "issues" placing them in the back of his head. "So me being emotional is the stereotype for women so it's okay to wear all of my emotions on my sleeve?"....I think not. Let's try to keep our cool because emotion=weak femininity in a mans brain(<--------harsh reality put forth in aggressive words). Men only recognize there idea of strength and they respect it.
You can cry to a man all day about how he hurt you but he isn't going to take you seriously unless your speaking with your head and not your emotions. Love is a ruthless game and only the hearty with tolerance and endurance can bear the poker face in the toughest hour.
Guys may tell you it's not true "Oh I love a woman who tells me everything that's she is feeling" but when everything is set on the table you can only depend on yourself to feel better, for closure and to feel complete on a emotional level because men and women have enough trouble as it is understanding each other and even more so a man's greatest challenge is understanding a woman's emotions.
See it's not that he doesn't care its just not in his nature to soothe every need and wipe every tear and it's not in a woman's nature either to do the same for a man. Similarly, it's not in a woman's nature to understand a man's mind when it comes to how he views women, a woman's body or a mans highly sexual nature.
The point of this is to remind you to stay strong and hold the fort on your emotions...You can give in emotionally but still maintain enough of your emotions to where you can respect yourself and be dignified in life.
(I have nothing against men, but a woman gives alot of herself when she really loves someone and often too much too soon when it comes to emotions.)
Some people want to know what love is well here is the simple self made definition yes happiness care all of that is part of it but you want recognize those things without this definition of love embedded in your mind:
My opinion on love is that its the ultimate sacrifice it can only evolve with giving upon yourself there usually isn't a great love story without any sacrifice...did u e
ver notice that? Because to love someone is to give up everything and its sad because love is the exact opposite of what people ROMANTICIZE it to be and u rarely see a person receiving it in many ways love is a tragedy to those that find it and those that don't.....You cant appreciate the goodness of love without any sacrifice.
