(Unfortunately there are people out there who may have parents that say harsh things to be mean, or are just not nice parents who don't do things in the best interest for there kids. It's up to YOU to know the difference.)
You may feel that whatever your parents have to say is infuriating because sometimes they react before knowing all the information or they might just be old fashioned and it's not done the same way now in life. The problem is that there's too much concern about what your parent's saying or how they're saying it. Yes listen to what your parents are saying but also READ IN BETWEEN the lines. Your parents are the most concerned about you so if they are just cursing or screaming to get there point across they are just that much more passionate about YOU.
Yes, sometimes parents are not good with there words because they're old fashioned!! Realize that your parents want you to grow and experience life and some don't want you to do anything because they are just fearful for you but either way your parents will always be the EMERGENCY BREAKS in your life even when you've grown to have all the experiences your meant to have in life. You will get to experience anything you truly want to even if your parents don't want you too because (if your young reading this one day you will move out and experience life) this is life and no one is an exception to life's harsh and amazing experiences.
Your JOB is to protect that little bit of wisdom you will ever receive in your life called parents. Yes people will give you knowledge in your life but the unique thing about a parents knowledge is that they know exactly what your capable of and they know all the building blocks that make you who you are even as you change and grow. So your parents advice or concerns will always be unique to anyone else's. With that said try your best to not let how your parents tell you something be the basis of your reaction (blowing a fuse and getting upset which leads to screaming). Read in between the lines that they say things and sometimes very passionately because they're worried about you.
It's okay to disagree with what your parents may say, you may live with your parents and to disagree is not an option. That's OKAY as frustrating as it may be always read in between the lines and question more of WHY they are saying it more then the HOW they are saying it.
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