Why you ask? Well the simple answer is respect.. There might be some men out there that like a women who is emotional but he won't respect you for it. When you hear things like "She's a female" also known as she="emotion", its a cop out and excuse. That's his way of dealing with any of your "issues" placing them in the back of his head. "So me being emotional is the stereotype for women so it's okay to wear all of my emotions on my sleeve?"....I think not. Let's try to keep our cool because emotion=weak femininity in a mans brain(<--------harsh reality put forth in aggressive words). Men only recognize there idea of strength and they respect it.
You can cry to a man all day about how he hurt you but he isn't going to take you seriously unless your speaking with your head and not your emotions. Love is a ruthless game and only the hearty with tolerance and endurance can bear the poker face in the toughest hour.
Guys may tell you it's not true "Oh I love a woman who tells me everything that's she is feeling" but when everything is set on the table you can only depend on yourself to feel better, for closure and to feel complete on a emotional level because men and women have enough trouble as it is understanding each other and even more so a man's greatest challenge is understanding a woman's emotions.
See it's not that he doesn't care its just not in his nature to soothe every need and wipe every tear and it's not in a woman's nature either to do the same for a man. Similarly, it's not in a woman's nature to understand a man's mind when it comes to how he views women, a woman's body or a mans highly sexual nature.
The point of this is to remind you to stay strong and hold the fort on your emotions...You can give in emotionally but still maintain enough of your emotions to where you can respect yourself and be dignified in life.
(I have nothing against men, but a woman gives alot of herself when she really loves someone and often too much too soon when it comes to emotions.)
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